Family Relations: January 2013

Thursday, January 31, 2013

I want to be in upper class because

I watched the korean drama, chungnamdong Allice past few months. This drama talked about one lady who is in low class wants to live in chungnandong where only high class people live in Korea. She tried to everything she could because no matter how she smart there is no way to advance to a higher class, but was not success. She realized that changing classes was not easy and was not accepted by the upper class.

I want to be in higher class becasue I want to suppor to my kids well. They have been missed lots of apportunities from our poor.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

family system

Nowadays, Family counselors reconize that the family as a system. The family system functions act like an unit, and every family member plays a critical role in the system. so it is possible that one member of the system could be changed by changing in their family system. I learned that if one family member has a problem, usally family counselors meet everyone of household and try to find ways to solve problems because the problem one particualr member has relatated to, or from each other family members. Each member of the family plays a specific roles to keep each individual family uniqueness. The family members need to aware of their behaviors and ready to change them when needed.

Family trends

We talked about what kinds of family trends are present in USA. low birth rate, low marrige rate, single parent family style, high rate of divoce, having a kid outside of marrige relationship, increse working mom at home etc. Every trends are affecing other trends. they are correlated each other.
I have time to think about my kids. I think, the family is their first school in their life.
so the life with family is very important and it plays a major role in their development into the person they become. Waht they lernn and see from their family becomes their value and forms their perceptions. As a parent, It is important to provide them good enviroment to develop good personality, habit. etc.